DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend lies, texts other guys and sends them Snapchat messages that she tries to hide from me.
We are both 23 and generally happy together but this behaviour is making me feel so insecure. We have been together almost a year.
When I discover what she has been doing and confront her, she lies at first but swears she is telling the truth.
When I prove I know the truth, she doesn’t really say sorry, we just stop discussing it until the next time.
She has always been a bit of a flirt. I do love her but I really struggle to trust her.
We’ve been talking about setting up home but I’m very anxious about it.
Should I just move on before I get hurt?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your girlfriend is lying and being secretive over what she is getting up to with other guys.
No wonder you feel anxious.
Tell her that she must stop behaving like this and any communications with other guys should be clearly friendly, rather than flirty or sexy, so she is happy to share them with you.
It’s that or you’re over.
My e-leaflet Standing Up For Yourself will help.
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